I totally have writers block. I feel like I need to write, but have no idea what to say.
I guess I’ll just treat this like a “Dear Diary” journal. Today is a beautiful day. It’s very warm for March, and the sun is peaking through the clouds. Charlie and I took a walk at lunchtime, and I’m thinking about getting him out for another one. I plan on attending a fitness class at LA Fitness tonight. Jason and I joined the club 1 month ago. I can’t say that I’ve been going regularly, but I have been going. I need to go more. My goal is to go 4x/week. I started off very strong, but then felt sick and skipped a week.
I’ve started a spiritual journal. Again, I know I should write something, but have no idea what to say. I think that I’m a stronger writer in the mornings, however lack the discipline to get up early and hammer out profound thoughts. I would love to get in the habit of getting up early to do my Bible Study homework and journal. Maybe tomorrow will be the first day I accomplish that.
I have a handful of really great friends that I love dearly. I wish I spent more time with them. That will be one of my priorities this year — spending quality time with dear friends. I’ve already stopped playing Cafe World, and next on the list is Farmville. I also plan on limiting TV and Internet usage in the evenings. I want to have plenty of time to spend building relationships.
Jason is always at the top of my priority list in life…. however I just relaized that maybe I’m not honoring that priority like I should, since he asked me to tend to his laundry today and I just noticed the dryer has been off for over an hour. *Oops*
I decided to start blogging about my life again. I’m not sure what the topics will be, but I miss writing…
In other news… I ran into a dilemma today.
I just took Charlie on a walk around the neighborhood and found a crowbar. Are we living in the ghetto? Should we move? Is the crowbar an invitation for hooligans to vandalize our properties? Is it my ethical responsibility as a pseudo-homeowner to go pick it up and give it to the cop, whose house it’s laying in front of? Since I strongly distrust cops, should I leave it and hope that some hooligan vandalizes his cop car? Will I go to hell for thinking that? Was it even a crowbar? How well do I know my tools?
Those are the important things that I’ve been thinking of today.
This list is inspired by the post “Top 10 Lessons from the Decade from Hell” on BNet.
- Getting away from family to attend college is the best decision you can make for yourself. Not only do you learn how to navigate the real world around you, the time you spend away from your annoying family members teaches you how to love them no matter what.
- Living in a sorority house teaches you the true meaning of “roll with the punches”. You appreciate it and still live that way 10 years later.
- Putting up with the worst traits a person can have does not equal “true love”. Or even real “love”. It just means you’re too lazy/scared/stupid to end things before they get bad.
- Be a student of Life, before you rack up the student loans. You’ll learn more about what you want to do in life after the age of 24… 25… and 26 than you could ever even guess to be your “passion” at the age of 18.
- Know what’s going on in the world, even if you are in the “safety net” of college — what’s happening now will impact your paycheck and standard of living in 3, 5 and even 10 years down the road.
- “The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds. Think big anyway.” – The Paradoxical Commandments by Kent Keith
- Always speak up. Even if your idea isn’t the final decision or the best out there… at least you gave people something to chew on, and likely gave them reason to ask for your input in the future.
- Always have a hand in your future (see above note). Even if you can’t completely control it, at least you tried. You don’t want to look back 10 years from now thinking, “Man, I wish I’d…” or “Dude, I should’a…”.
- Marry your best friend. You really need to like that person when all the exciting stuff dies down and you still have 50+ years to tackle together.
- Real leaders don’t have titles. You can always have a positive impact on someone else’s life, regardless of what position or role you are in, and most importantly… regardless of what your title is. And in the end, all that matters are the relationships you have with other people, so make the best of them and do good for others.
I found this article today, and thought it was great advice for anyone in a relationship.
Tips to Reviving Your Relationship
- Meet once a week to look at your schedules and set aside time for each other.
- At least once a week, plan a date night. Once a month, plan a date day (that’s right, a whole day from morning to evening). Once each quarter, plan a weekend get-away. Once each year, plan a week away together.
- Mark your planned time in your calendar, just like a dentist appointment or an appointment with a client. Write it in ink! Mark yourself out for a block of time.
- Take turns planning your dates each week.
- Do the grocery shopping and buy a bouquet of flowers for your partner.
- Write a love note and leave it for your partner to find.
- Take a break from watching TV and doing laundry or other chores. Go to bed early and share massages, talk, or cuddle.
- Turn off the TV, turn on the stereo and have a talk.
- Kiss your mate Good Morning and Good Night every day. Just say, “I love you.”
Last weekend Jason and I got married in Vegas, and it was amazing! We planned the weekend with our closest family and friends, and then had our ceremony at the top of the Stratosphere at sunset. It was truly gorgeous. In true Vegas style, we slept little, partied a lot, and walked A TON. My feet still hurt. 😉